Forget Me Not

User manual · Chapter 2

Reminders

A reminder is a name and a moment. Everything else on the form is optional — but the optional parts are where the app earns its keep.

Making one

The round + button at the bottom right of the itinerary opens an empty editor. A reminder needs a Name and a Category; each says so underneath itself while it is empty, and Save stays greyed until both are answered. A new reminder starts in whichever category you were looking at, or failing that the one quick add files things under — so usually only the name is left to fill in.

An empty New reminder form with rows for Name, Location, Category, Start date, Repeat, Type, Notifications and an Advanced section.
A new reminder, before anything is filled in.
A filled-in reminder, MOT for the Skoda, with a location, a category, a yearly repeat, an end date, two notifications, the Advanced section open showing three fields and the schedule switches.
The same form with a real reminder in it.

Tapping any existing reminder opens the same form under the title Edit reminder. Nothing is written until you tap Save.

One name to a moment

Two reminders cannot share a name and a date and time. Try it and the app says “There's already a reminder with that name at that date and time.” Change either one and it saves. The rule exists so that a reminder is identifiable — by you, and by the calendar export and the share file.

The form, row by row

Every row on the editor is asked for the same way: tap the row, answer the dialog, and the row shows what you chose. There is no mixture of dropdowns, spinners and inline pickers to learn.

RowWhat it does
NameWhat the notification will say. Required.
LocationFree text, shown on the row, in the editor and in the occurrence panel. Nothing is looked up or mapped.
CategoryWhich group it belongs to, which decides its icon and — if the category has its own — its sound. Required.
Start dateWhen it is due, and whether it is all-day. See below.
RepeatNever, hourly, daily, weekly, monthly or yearly.
TypeAn ordinary notification, or Important.
NotificationsWhen to be told. One at the time of the event by default; add as many as you like.
AdvancedFolded away by default: Fields and the switches that decide where a reminder shows up. See Chapter 7 and below.

Date and time

Tapping the Start date row opens one dialog for everything about when a reminder starts: an All day event switch at the top, and — while that is off — a date chip and a time chip below it. Tapping either chip expands it to its full picker and collapses the other back down to a chip beside it, since a phone only has room for one full-size picker at a time.

The Start date dialog with its date chip expanded to a calendar, showing August 2026 with the 12th selected, and a collapsed time chip reading 7:00 AM above it.
The date chip, expanded.
The same Start date dialog with its time chip expanded to a clock face instead, and the date collapsed to a chip above it.
The time chip, expanded. Twelve- or twenty-four-hour, following Settings.

When the date chosen is not today, the clock opens on the morning rather than on the current hour — a reminder set for next Tuesday is far more often for nine o'clock than for whatever time it happens to be while you are typing. A time that has already gone today is refused, with “Choose a time from … onwards”. A reminder cannot be set for the past, because there would be nothing for it to do.

All-day reminders

Turn on All day event, at the top of the Start date dialog, and the time chip goes: the reminder is a date, not an appointment. A birthday, a renewal, a bin day.

An all-day reminder fires at midnight at the start of its day. That is deliberate — a due date is something you want to know about as the day begins, not at whatever hour you happened to create it. If you would rather be told at a civilised hour, add a notification for the time you want (see below) — or set an ordinary timed reminder instead.

Important is not available on an all-day reminder; the Type dialog says “Not available for an all-day reminder”. Taking the screen over at midnight would not be a service to anybody.

Repeats

The Repeat row offers Never, Every hour, Every day, Every week, Every month and Every year.

The Repeat dialog listing Never, Every hour, Every day, Every week, Every month and Every year.
Six repeats, and no repeat.
The Repeat on dialog, with chips for Mon to Sun and a note reading Monday comes from the start date and cannot be turned off.
A weekly repeat can fall on several days.

Choose Every week and a Repeat on row appears with a chip for each weekday. The day the reminder starts on is fixed on and cannot be turned off — the app says so — but you can add as many of the others as you like. A weekday stand-up is Monday to Friday on one reminder rather than five.

A monthly repeat on the 31st is counted from the start date rather than nudged along month by month, so passing through February does not strand the rest of the series on the 28th.

Watch the hourly one

Every hour does exactly what it says, for ever. It is genuinely useful for medication on a strict schedule, and a menace on anything else. The calendar export warns about it specifically, because exporting one fills a calendar with thousands of entries.

Ordinary or Important

The Type row decides how loudly a reminder arrives.

The Type dialog offering Notification and Important.
Two kinds of reminder.
An Important reminder taking the whole screen: an amber bell icon, the name Leave for the airport, the time, and Dismiss and Snooze buttons.
An Important reminder does not wait to be noticed.

Important reminders lean on two Android permissions — Display over other apps and Full screen notifications — and Android silently demotes them to ordinary notifications if it has neither. The app notices when that has happened and says so, rather than leaving you to wonder. Chapter 5 goes into it.

Notifications before the event

Every reminder starts with one notification, at the time of the event. The Notifications row opens the list, and you can add as many more as you want.

The Notifications dialog listing At time of event and 7 days before, each with a Remove button, plus an Add notification button.
The alerts on one reminder.
The Add notification dialog, with Before event and Specific time options, an Amount box and Minutes, Hours or Days.
Either an interval before, or a fixed moment.

An alert whose moment has already passed is never armed, so give yourself room: a reminder set an hour out with a thirty-minute warning has already used half of it by the time you finish typing.

One thing that does not export

A Specific time alert cannot be written to a calendar — the calendar format has no way to hold one. The Import/Export screen flags any reminder carrying one, and exports the rest of it faithfully. See Chapter 9.

Fields and location

Location is a free line of text. Nothing is looked up, mapped or searched — it appears on the reminder's row, in the editor and in the occurrence panel, and that is all it is for.

Fields are anything else you want to keep with a reminder: a policy number, a renewal date, a premium, a mileage. Tap the row, then Add field, and pick from the fields you have defined.

The Fields dialog on a reminder, listing Renewal date, Mileage and Notes with their values and drag handles.
Fields on one reminder, in an order you choose.
The Add field dialog listing Mileage, Notes, Policy number, Premium and Renewal date.
Pick from the fields you have defined.

The handle at the left of each row drags it into position, and the order is kept. A reminder can hold the same field more than once — two phone numbers, two reference numbers — and each copy keeps its own value. Chapter 7 covers defining them.

Advanced: local time and the three switches

Advanced, folded shut by default, holds Fields and four further switches — the rarer settings, out of the way until they are wanted.

SwitchWhat turning it on does
Adjust to local time
(on by default)
Keeps the reminder at the same time of day if the device's time zone changes — travelling with a 9am reminder keeps it firing at 9am wherever you land. Turn it off and it pins to one fixed moment instead, wherever you are. Not offered on an all-day reminder, which has no time of day for a zone change to disturb.
Show On Upcoming Schedule
(on by default)
Turn it off and the reminder disappears from Upcoming and the calendar, while still firing and still appearing in the itinerary. This is for the standing arrangement — a daily tablet, a weekly bin day — that would otherwise bury everything else. A missed occurrence still shows in Upcoming regardless: something that was due and was not dealt with is outstanding work.
Only Show On Today's Schedule The reminder appears on Upcoming and the calendar only on the day itself, rather than on every future date it will fall on. A daily errand shows once, today, instead of filling the next three weeks.
Exclude From Import/Export Keeps the reminder out of the Import/Export screen entirely: never offered for export, and if it came from a calendar, that event is no longer offered for import.

Duplicating, pausing and deleting

Every row on the itinerary carries a menu of its own.

A reminder row's menu, offering Share, Duplicate, Disable and Delete.
Four things you can do to a reminder without opening it.

Working on several at once

Long-press any row on the itinerary and the list goes into selection mode: tick as many as you like and the bar at the foot becomes Cancel, Delete, Category and Notify.

The itinerary in selection mode, with tick boxes down the left, two rows ticked, and a bottom bar reading Cancel, Delete, Category and Notify.
Long-press to start; tap to add to the selection.